Sex Advice from Dr. Dick
Love Kisses
Name: Yuri
Gender: male
Age: 20
Location: Russia
I want to make love kisses on my girlfriend’s vagina. But I never did this. What can I do?
Love kisses on her vagina, huh? You Russians are so romantique!
I think you are talkin about some good old fashioned cunnilingus,
right? Or as we say here in the US or A — eatin’ out at the Y,
munchin’ carpet, muff divin’, pussy lappin’ and what have you.
If your girlfriend is as unfamiliar with gettin’ love kisses on her vagina as you are at givin’ 
them,
you might want to give her a head’s up on what you plan to do. Ya see
some of our women folk are none too keen on the idea. They have it in
their head that their pussy is icky and not for oral consumption. This
is very unfortunate, but it is what it is. If you think you’re gonna
get a lot of resistance from your lady friend, you might start kissing
her on the face and neck, then to the tops of her tits, her nipples,
and her belly. This will give her an idea where you’re headin’. If
you’re doin’ this right, hopefully she’ll be so busy enjoying herself
she’ll not protest your trip south.
Proceed slowly. Make sure you’re you’re both comfortable. If you’re
lying down, you best be on your stomach between her legs so that your
string of kisses is as effortless as possible. Have a pillow ready to
shove under her hips to raise her a bit if she’s willing to proceed.
If, by the time you get to her pussy, she doesn’t try to stop you,
you’re home free. Basically she is giving you tacit permission to
proceed. Of course you could check in with her and ask if you can
continue. But sometimes, in delicate situations like this, you may be
better off keeping the conversation to a minimum. She might be fine
with it if she doesn’t actually have to agree to it. Women are like
that sometimes.
Try
scooting her butt to the side of the bed while you kneel on the floor
between her legs. This will give you all the access you’ll need. And
hey, don’t go divin’ right in there, for heaven’s sakes. Take a moment
to two to admire the beautiful spectacle before you. Lordy, lordy
ain’t that a sight for sore eyes.
Gently nuzzle, kiss, and lick her inner thighs and the area around
her vulva. With a little luck your gal-pal will be so aroused she’ll
begin to guide your head into her snatch. Lick her outer lips. Run
your tongue up and down them. Nibble them gently with your lips. Next,
work your tongue in between the outer lips to caress her smaller,
thinner inner lips. Circle her vaginal opening and perhaps dart your
tongue inside her cunt.
I hope you know your way around a woman’s genitals, because If you
don’t you’ll be bumbling around down there to no great effect. And,
while you may get an “A” for effort, you might very well wreck the
moment by being too aggressive on her more sensitive parts. Her clit
is her magic button. If you don’t know a clit from a hole in your
head, do some research before you head south.
Approach her clit very slowly and gently. Some women enjoy a tongue
lashing directly on her clit. Others find direct contact too intense,
even uncomfortable. Now is a good time to check in with her. Ask for
direction on how she wants you to proceed. She may prefer you to
circle her clit with your tongue, avoiding direct contact.
If your gal is unfamiliar with this kind of pleasure, she may not kow to direct you. If that’s 
the
case, you’re gonna have to ask direct questions like: Do you want it
lighter? Or would you like more pressure? More of this? Not so much of
that? Soon you will be able to tell on your own by observing her
pelvic movements and listening to her moan if you’re doing a good job.
Sometimes the best communication is non-verbal.
While you’re down there, why not employ a couple fingers to spread
things apart? Add a little massage. Use the tip of your tongue, then
the flat of your tongue, then your lips as you move around her vulva.
All three feel a little different and each provide subtly different
sensations. Some chicks love pussy raspberries, you know…
Come up for air from time to time. Look into here eyes, caress and
massage her boobs. Try slipping a finger or two into her mouth so she
can suck them while you’re licking her. Or move into a 69 position and
enjoy a little blowjob with you’re eating her out.
You may want to incorporate some ass play too. Insert a lubed
finger into her butt hole. Just make sure that whatever goes in her
ass doesn’t then come in contact with her cunt. You definitely don’t
want to introduce bacteria that can cause a urinary infection.
Good luck ya’ll
Dr. Dick
Originally published February 2010