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O&C Take Out - Orgasms & Anal Sex

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Fun Sex Questions

Female Orgasms and Anal Sex

We're heading into the final stages of writing our book on women and sex! We're looking forward to providing straight and bi men with the essentials on proper play with the female body. We just have a few more lingering questions that we're hoping our brilliant readers can help us with...

Women:

If you have had anal sex (that is, penetration by a penis or dildo into your cute little butthole), have you ever had an orgasm during such activity? If so, was the orgasm induced by anal penetration alone, or was there stimulation of other body parts (i.e., clitoral stimulation, vaginal penetration, etc...)?

Men:

If you have had anal sex (that is, your penis or a dildo penetrating her cute little butthole), has she ever had an orgasm during such activity? If so, was the orgasm induced by anal penetration alone, or was there stimulation of other body parts (i.e., clitoral stimulation, vaginal penetration , etc...)?

Remember, all answers can be 100% anonymous, just use a fake name.
xoxo
Jordan and Samantha

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O&C Take Out is an exciting monthly section created just for our readers. If you think of reading the delectable O&C stories as "eating in," then Take Out is a way for us to order out for opinions, comments and discussion from our readers. We hope it's informative, inspiring and fun! To engage in the conversation, simply submit a comment at the bottom of the article. We look forward to reading what our plethora of sophisticated readers have to say!

Originally published January 2011

Comments

• BlushingWildly...
  1/5/2011 10:36:50 AM

  As for having orgasms during anal sex...yes, yes, and yes. Without any other touching, with touching and fondling on other delicate spots (breasts, nipples, earlobes, back of the neck, throat) and in several different positions. This is with the, ahmmm, real thing, not toys. Alas, I am not really into toys at all and never even saw one until a few years ago. Blame it on rural small town life! *blush*
• Kentucky Wildrose
  1/5/2011 10:42:38 AM

  Oh my yes. I love anal sex and have had many orgasms via anal penetration alone. I don't usually use toys in my bum so it's all been thanks to my lover's erection. I just love the feeling of being stretched and filled and there's something sexy about the submission factor involved too. Yum.. now I'm horny.
• Alex Severn
  1/5/2011 10:50:17 AM

  I ahve had anal sex with a couple of women but one who really wanted this much more than anything else. She loved being entered that way, exactly what Kentucky Wildrose said 'being stretched and filled' was ecsatsy for her.I did usually massage her clit, rolling the hard nub and teasing it, often as I went deeper in her lovlyl ass I would finger her pussy and try to match the thrusts of my cock with the probing of my fingers. She would 'squirt' beautifuly when it all went right for us. Again as above, I know the submissive factor for her was important and since (as readers of these pages may know by now, he said blushing scarlet!!!) I have both dominat and submissive tendencies myself it was so perfect for me too!!!! Alex XXX
• Rosalía Zizzo
  1/5/2011 11:41:28 AM

  I have gloriously experienced many orgasms via anal sex with my husband after much foreplay, a lot of lube, and clitoral stimulation. We didn't use toys at any time but...
• Love It!
  1/5/2011 12:45:02 PM

  I Love anal sex! I like my hair pulled and I like it very rough. I use very little lube, and the guy has to be huge, but he also has to get my ass ready for him with his fingers. He has to know what he's doing or forget it! I just experienced this type of sex within the last 8 years or so, and I've been having sex 36 years. I guess I was scared in my earlier years. I know now what I was missing:-) I Have a better orgasm with way, as a matter of fact it last a long time. Besides the anal penetration I need clitoral stimulation and my nipples pinched (I do that myself). I have to say I'd rather have anal sex:-)
• Angela
  1/5/2011 7:01:08 PM

  I'm not the anal retentive type, but if he's game (probably) I am too. Could be habit forming!
• Kaytie Didhim
  1/5/2011 11:19:45 PM

  I've been penetrated by my incredibly enthusiastic lover. I cum without any other stimulation hard and very differently than during vaginal sex. Uncontrollable spasms overwhelm me. I feel like an animal and sound somewhat like one, too. The taboo adds to my excitement as does my partner's near begging to do it. As he would say, "it's so wrong but feels so right." Sure, it seems submissive but he would say he's the one being controlled in that position.
• The "It" Girl
  1/6/2011 8:24:04 AM

  A dildo in my ass when I'm having my pussy eaten! The resulting orgasm is off the charts. But it can't be inserted immediately. It takes me a while to warm up so extended foreplay is always on the menu. Once I'm panting and my puss is soaking wet, a dildo or vibrator in my ass kicks me right over the edge. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
• Firefly
  1/6/2011 9:43:00 AM

  I've never tried anal sex. Reading these posts makes me curious tho.
• Adventurer
  1/6/2011 11:49:45 PM

  A few years back I dated a girl who loved anal sex. Not initially as she had tried it with someone who had been somewhat careless. After a little practice and a lot of patience she came to love t, I did too. After lots of foreplay in all areas I would place the head of my cock near her little bud and let her push back against it. As she was ready she would let a little more in millimetre after millimetre. It would take ages to get it all in and it was excruciatingly enjoyable. Once it was all the way in we would gently rock against each other with only the slightest of movement. Sometimes I would lay back and let her do it all and she would eventually go wild with excitement and start pushing back as hard as she could. I knew then that she was close to coming an all I had done was to provide the tool for her to use. Of course it would take all my powers of concentration to stop from coming so she could enjoy it to ts fullest. Her orgasms this way were simply unbelievable. Of course when we were finished spooning was already sorted and if it stayed in there it was the best way to go spooning. We always enjoyed it and I hope anybody reading this had some fun too
• Single&Curious
  1/7/2011 10:26:36 PM

  I fell out of love and ended a five year relationship a few months ago, the sex had gotten a bit boring, my partner at the time wasn't very adventurous, we had tried anal sex together a few times but neither of us enjoyed the experience. Things changed recently, I currently have a 'friend with benefits' who has really opened my eyes, he loves spending hours pleasuring me and exploring my body. I have to say I was slightly nervous to begin with after my previous bad experiences but he reintroduced me to anal play, we discovered that I have very powerful whole body orgasms that last for a couple of minutes this way. We warm up with plenty of kissing and foreplay first and then he would very gently use a finger or two in my bum with lots of lube while using his tongue on my clit. I feel very submissive when we do this and I think giving over control is part of the enjoyment for me. Since then I have experimented with toys on my own, I generally take quite a long time to orgasm, sometimes a couple of hours which can be quite tiring but using a small spiral shaped glass dildo (about an inch in width) with lots of lube in my bum and simultaneously rubbing my clitoris I have fantastic orgasms quite quickly, not quite as powerful as when I'm with him but still very enjoyable. We have yet to try anal sex but I'm definitely much more willing to explore now.
• Pris V.
  1/9/2011 10:55:43 AM

  No, I have never had an orgasm while recieving anal sex, although it certainly does feel good. We've tried various other stimulations while having anal sex to see if that would push me over the edge, but I end up being overwhelmed in a not-positive way, so we've stopped. The anal sex is for him, and I get off in other ways.
• naturegirl
  1/11/2011 1:49:18 PM

  well…here’s another female perspective: I dislike it! Quite a lot actually! At best it’s uncomfortable, mostly it’s painful. That doesn’t mean I’m against anal play, a well timed finger insertion can add to clitoral stimulation, or a tongue caressing the area around the anus can be a heavenly sensation, but no dicks up there please!
• SwngrHsbnd85
  1/12/2011 1:03:31 PM

  My wife and I both enjoy anal sex. Of course I can't speak for her but from what she has told me she does orgasm from anal sex but it's not as strong an orgasm as she has with vaginal penetration. Personally, I prefer vaginal penetration more but I love changing it up every now and again for a new sensation.
• amaven
  1/13/2011 8:10:12 PM

  Hmm, orgasm from anal sex alone..no. I like dual penetration and a clit vibrator for the best orgasm. I like anal sex (well, I like all sex...) but don't get to experience anal often.
• Shelly Barr
  1/14/2011 7:53:28 AM

  The first couple of times - no. But I've had awesome anal sex since. I do come completely to orgasm with just anal. I think it's mainly an emotionally stimulated orgasm, though, not a physical one. Although I certainly feel it physically. The key points for me: Enter slowly but fuck fast. I don't like being pushed into, but once it's in I like it a bit rough. Once you've opened enough for it to enter, the feeling of entry is ecstatic. If the guy is really enjoying it it makes me come off easier. I love hearing my man groan and exclaim. I like the submission aspect but also the power of pleasuring him. I'm much more likely to come if I've had vaginal or clitoral stimulation first.
• ts2
  1/15/2011 12:10:12 AM

  Love anal sex! The most intense orgasms I've ever had were with anal penetration combined with clitoral stimulation. I've had orgasms from dildos, anal beads, and "the real thing". My favorite is having him eat my pussy with a finger (or two) in my ass. Heaven.
• joytotheworld
  2/17/2011 11:22:33 PM

  I orgasm too fast with anal sex, so real penetration is not really possible: spasms, spasms, spasms, as really strong orgasm comes with the cock barely in. finger in during regular sex or pulling out anal beads make me come right away. As a result i do own a butt plug :) waterproof
• Abbie
  10/18/2011 7:19:00 PM

  Why do women who have anal sex get more orgasms? http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/human_nature/2010/10/the_riddle_of_the_sphincter.html

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